A MUST READ!!! FACT ABOUT BRAKING UP A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

FACT ABOUT BRAKING UP A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

The actual fact about braking up a toxic relationship is not something easy for everyone, even when it ruins ones existence which may also cease happiness from coming by. What most of us think is, it’s hard to find a new partner getting to know each other, which we really need to spend the rest of our life with. The work, time and energy that will be put into the new relationship before we finally get to be understood by each other, no matter the pain and struggle we don’t want to leave our partner we are in a relationship with, because we still feel the love inside of us and they do not. We stand to be the witness of how badly we are being treated as a person and a lover, this is so unfortunate some of us don’t realize this, further more we stand to witness the fault, abuse, and emotional abuse, but we say it’s okay, cause we are lucky it’s not physical, but soon it will if we are not careful, this is a task we most put down and walk away from it.

Therefore Before it gets out of hands, let’s not settle in a relationship that gives us nothing but sorrow, pain, agony, and devalues us. Its okay by feeling we want to be loved by someone else, its worst being in a toxic relationship that we continue to live on and on just because we wanted to meet up to social standard and other irrelevant pressures we are getting from people around us. Being alone may be scary but being in a toxic relationship will create a scar that we might never be able to forget, caring about our self is what we should start doing, letting someone else break our heart every moment while we still choose to stay with them, that is a bond we must break.

Moreover If someone keeps treating us like a non-human, like we don’t deserve any good thing in this world, we should be able to  know we deserve everything. No real human who claims to love us, will continue to watch us cry and say that’s how relationship is, that is how the life you are going to live with them is, and we should start to create our own new life, who knows what the life might have for us. You should be seen happy and not sad, smiling and not crying, that’s what you deserve and how you should be treated.

It can be hard to leave the person we love, but we can’t force them to love us right, we should learn how to walk away when we should, and if we choose to stay with someone who keeps hurting us, let’s not complain about the way they treat us.