Secret About Friendship
is Being social, relaxing with friends - the meaning of life isn't in working too hard, or being stressed out, it's in the people you connect with every day.True friends are a powerful influence on a happy life, and finding and keeping strong friendships is a major priority in life. Friends help you to have fun, and solve the boredom of a work or school-focused monotony.
Maybe
it's as simple as a small miscommunication and neither of you want to admit
what you did wrong. Whatever the case may be, it’s time to get this friendship
back on track—and it's totally possible, too.
Finding a best friend can be difficult, and when you do find a great friendship, you really know it. What's more, you are always looking for ways to improve your friendship when things get tough because, hey—BFFs are hard to come by. When you find your friend soul mate or that one friend who just gets you , you cherish that relationship and nurture it. However, like any relationship, things aren't going to be perfect.
Finding a best friend can be difficult, and when you do find a great friendship, you really know it. What's more, you are always looking for ways to improve your friendship when things get tough because, hey—BFFs are hard to come by. When you find your friend soul mate or that one friend who just gets you , you cherish that relationship and nurture it. However, like any relationship, things aren't going to be perfect.
That Helps Without Draining Your Energy.
1. Expressing How You Feel
The only way you’re going
to keep a long-lasting friendship is if you both are able to express yourselves
fully. That means being able to express those uncomfortable feelings as well.
Maybe your friend made a comment joking about how you have a big butt and, hey,
you might be sensitive about that, so you have to talk about that and make sure
you don’t take it too personal. Instead of pushing your emotions under the rug
and keeping quiet, you should tell him or her what’s up.
2. Stay in Touch
To keep your friendship
alive, you’re going to talk to each other. I know, Some people may say that the
best kinds of friendships are when you can go a long time without talking and
everything stays the same, but I think there’s something to be said for keeping
up the conversation as well. Texting consistently or even having scheduled
phone dates can make you and your bestie feel more involved in each other’s
lives. Life has gotten much more better with different social apps that can’t
make you still feel connected and feel their present also being real during the
conversation.
3. Let Your Bestie Knows That You Care.
In romantic relationships, we show our partner
we love them by our words and kind gestures. Why not use this same approach in
your friendships? Why do everyone forget to add this part when it comes to
friendship? Don’t leave your BFF in the dark. Scream your love from the
rooftops, that creates more joy and strengthen the relationship even if you
have to go live on
cameras which, by the way,
in today's world is basically equivalent to a Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter post.
4. Don’t Judge Really
Quick
Most people judge. It
happens; we’re only human. But there’s something about a best friend that
listens to you consistently without judgment. The next time your friend is
telling you about his or her crazy one night stand or a fault, in conducting
him or herself in public, keep a nonjudgmental vibes and your friend will
appreciate it. At the end you understand how crazy or clumsy they are.
5. Be Inspiring
Everyone needs some inspiration
or encouragement sometimes, and I’m sure your friend does too. There are so
many things in life that are stopping us from achieving our dreams and goals;
you don't want to be one of those things. Be the opposite. Encourage your
friend to do whatever it is that he or she wants to do. As long as it will make
him or her happy. There would be no need for love if perfection were possible.
6. Being there
You have to be willing to
put in the work. This means not only being there for the great times, but also
being by your friend’s side during the rough times. Your BFF lost his or her
job or was just broken up with, You’re
already on your way with a bottle of wine in hand and look for a cool
distraction. You know what to do without your friend even asking.
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